Yesterday was Father's Day. I had a very nice day - including a 7 mile run in the morning, a family brunch with my parents, sister and her family, riding bikes with my 6 year old, swimming with the family at the community pool and then dinner with the family. It was a lot of family time and I know that my two boys - ages 6 and 2 1/2 - enjoyed the family time.
I was reminded a few times this past week that my kids are subconsciously watching my every move as they start to determine what is right / wrong, safe / unsafe, etc.
I took my 2 1/2 year old for a short bike ride to our synagogue last weekend. I put him in the bike seat, strapped him in and put his helmet on. Since it was only 1/4 mile from our house and it was really hot outside, I had decided not to wear my helmet. However, just before we were going to leave, my son says. "Abba, where's your helmet?" I knew I was sooooo busted.
My 6 year old also consistently reminds me in the car to drive with two hands on the wheel since it is safer (I'm normally driving with one hand on the wheel and the other arm resting either on the window or on an arm rest/console).
I respectfully take their reminders and put on the bike helmet or put a second hand on the wheel. I know that in a good 10 years the tables will be turned and I will be the one reminding them to be safe during their more volatile teenage years. I just hope they give me similar respect that I am giving them in terms of listening to their recommendations...
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"I just hope they give me similar respect that I am giving them in terms of listening to their recommendations..."
From my experience... don't count on it. ;-)
Happy belated Father's Day.
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